I agree with you. Everyone needs to be their own person. No one can change you, except you. Oh man here I go giving advice when I can;t even follow my own advice. LOL. But anyone way, no one should have to change anyone, just be yourself and if they don.t like it, well then it is time for a change for you. I am going to post a quote actually that I heard on the movie Twice Upon Christmas which actually fits with this topic here and you will see what I mean when I post it